Right now in the organization that I work,
we are in the process of setting our goals for the new financial year. Lot of
work is happening in terms of finalizing a strategy, deciding priorities which
would help the goal setting process. In our personal life as well, we do our
own goal setting. It can be anything from losing 5 kilos to buying a house,
from getting a new dress to getting married. I too had one very important
personal goal to achieve. Every birthday, New Year, Christmas would be a deadline
I would set for myself to reach this goal. But over the last few years I have
been missing the deadline over and over again.
Wondering what this goal was? Well, it was to learn driving and get
myself a car.
It might seem like a very simple goal for
most of you. Driving comes naturally to many. But, not so for me. It was one of
my biggest fears, which I have been battling for more than a decade now! I made
progress now and then, but then some incident (read accident) or other would happen
because of which I would give up. I had almost resigned to the fact that I
would never be able to drive.
A few years back, this was not the only
fear I had. There were so many of them. But, after coming to know God in a
deeper way and while reading the Bible I came across a very beautiful verse
which said, “Perfect love drives away all fear.” I realized by then, that God
loves me perfectly, whereas my love for Him was nowhere close to being perfect.
I understood that all the fears I had were because of lack of this perfect love
and trust in God. I started praying and surrendering them to God, asking for
His help to overcome my fears. He started working and soon I was no longer
afraid or worried about most of the things. And driving also joined that list.
Last month, I got my driving license and a car to drive. I still have a long
way to go. I’ve dashed the car twice, still not comfortable at driving in peak
traffic, still honk a lot, still leave my fellow motorists annoyed, but I know
it will get better. If with God I could overcome this much, the remaining will happen soon too. A few months back I could not even imagine seeing myself sitting behind a steering wheel, but God made it possible.
I realized one thing - fear is so ingrained
in all of us. And it is this fear that prevents us from loving God perfectly.
God knows the importance for us to rise over all this and
thats why He asks us not to be afraid. Not once, not twice, not thrice, but
hundreds of times throughout the Bible, God tell us “Do not be afraid.” (Genesis 15:1, Exodus 20:20, Isaiah 35:4, Isaiah 41:10, Jeremiah 1:8, Deuteronomy 31:6,Deaniel 10:12, 1Chronicle 28:20, Zephaniah 3:16, Haggai 2:5, Matthew 10:28, Luke 1:13, John 14:27, Mark 6:50, Act 18:9, 1Peter 3:6, Revelation 1:17........ and many more). He
couldn’t have been more clear or direct in telling this to us. Whether its fear
of darkness, fear of heights, fear of speaking in public, fear of performing on
stage, fear of driving, fear of animals, fear of a particular person, fear of
sickness or disease, fear of failure, fear of taking responsibility, fear of
losing a loved one, fear of loneliness, fear about financial insecurity, fear
of uncertain future, fear of ambiguity, fear of death…..; no matter what we are
afraid of, He tells us just one thing - “Do not be afraid.” Let’s listen to His
words, surrender our fears - from the biggest to even the smallest ones - to Him, ask His help to overcome it and
make efforts to make lesser room for fear and more room for a perfect love for
Him.
“There is no fear in love. Perfect love
drives away fear,…, those who fear do not know perfect love.” – 1 John 4:18.
God Bless!
Great Post Tejas.. JD
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